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Happy Birthday Mom

October 1, 2008 1 comment

Today would have been my mother’s 62nd birthday.  It’s hard to imagine what life would be like if she was still with us.  Would I have made some of the moves I made years ago?  Would I have moved to Iowa?  Would I have stayed in Chicagoland?  Would I be done with school right now? 

Would my faith have been as strong?

You see, my mother’s passing was the biggest test of my faith – especially in light of the fact that I had only been following Christ for a year at that point in my life.  Because I leaned on Him to get me through things, I know that my faith deepened then.  It was because I knew God to be faithful and true that I was able to make the decisions I made. 

As I look back on my life, I see that the steps I took helped me follow the plan He has for me.  My moving to Iowa brought Nicole into my life.  Nicole’s internship in Indianapolis brought me to Traders Point and the youth ministry.  The youth ministry brought friendships, direction, support, clarity.  All part of His plan. 

Even after all these years, my mother still impacts my life, and I am thankful for that.  I miss her terribly, and I wish I could have one more day with her.  With that my dear readers, I ask you to think of your mothers today.  Call them, tell them you love them, hug them. 

Ama, feliz cumpleanos, and te extrrano mucho.

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Update on Nicole’s dad

August 29, 2008 1 comment

Well, the specialist determined that surgery will not be needed. Dale was sent home today. He had therapy to help him negotiate stairs and other daily movements, and now he is recuperating at home. The prognosis is really good, although Dale and Mary Pat will not be attending any Hawkeyes games for the next two months at least. Hopefully they’ll be able to go to Kinnick in November. Thank you for your continued prayers and support! They mean a lot to us. Hopefully Dale’s recovery time is short.

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Prayer request

August 27, 2008 Leave a comment

My father-in-law Dale had a bicycle accident earlier this week that resulted in a broken pelvis.  Nicole and I ask for your prayers for him, our family, his doctors, and that everything goes well.  We are still awaiting word from the specialists as what the best course of treatment they recommend.  Thank you in advance.

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There and back again (or a Glimpse of Heaven)

July 21, 2008 2 comments

On Saturday we returned from our mission trip to Tijuana, and I am still very tired from the trip.  It was an awesome, amazing, tiring, draining, uplifiting…you get the idea.  Words are not enough to express what God did in Mexico.  He  gave us a glimpse into what Heaven might be like, and we fully experienced what it means to be the body of Christ.  With my first trip from two years ago being my only reference point, the people on this trip bonded extremely quickly.  While waiting at the Amor HQ to get our guide to Mejico, we started to get to know each other, and the conversation flowed like we had known each other for a while.  We got past the initial questions (the most common ones I got were: "Are you fluent in Spanish?"; "where were you born?"; "can you slow down when you talk?"; and finally – "are you THE snorer?" Yes, my snoring has become legendary.  I drove off my two tent mates and I had the hotel all to myself our first night in San Diego) and started to bond. 

I do admit that there wasn’t much intermingling at the camp at first.  There were clear groupings of Traders Point, Colonial Point, and the First Congregational Church of Hebron nestled throughout the camp.  But as the night wore on and we had our Saturday night campfire, Jake did a good job of forci….ahem, getting…people to talk to strangers.  It was awesome.

Sunday brought the first day of work and we worked our tails off.  I made it a point to not go down like I did two years ago…and it didn’t work out quite that way.  My back acted up and I was sidelined for a while.  Mike even scolded me for trying to do things I shouldn’t have been trying to do.  In my stubborness I would have tried to do things that would have made it worse, and thankfully the voice of reason (or was it intimidation) rang loud and clear.  Still, we got a lot done. 

That night I was the speaker for our Campfire Talks, and I was nervous.  I had the general idea of what I wanted to say, and had ran through my main points  a couple of times, but right before I spoke, my talk was still a work in progress.  Still when I stood to talk, I felt a calmness wash over me and the words came.  I won’t lie and tell you I remember what I said, how I spoke, or that it was good.  I don’t know (and far too critical of myself to say that last part).   I was just the mouthpiece.  I was told by several people that it was good, some that said that it felt that I spoke directly to them, and no one said I went too fast.  I’ll admit to this – I felt good afterwards.

The next few days were more of the same.  We finished our three homes on Wednesday and then helped out a fourth family by putting on the second coat of stucco of their unfinished home.  We then went to a church in Tijuana led by Pastor Adolfo in order to help dedicate a soccer field.  We took the scenic route there and the quick route back). 

On Thursday we packed up camp and headed back to San Diego.  It took us like 45 minutes to get all the vans across the border (a record of some sort) and I wasn’t even picked up this year.  I think the passport helped.  We hung out at a park for while before checking in to our hotel, and then we took some of the vans to get cleaned.  I took the scenic route for that trip as well.  Friday I went and hung out at the mall with Kevin, and then had dinner with the Barkers, Jordan, the Gilchrists and several of the students.  That night was our last worship as a group before heading our separate ways. 

There is more to come on the trip.  If you have any questions about the trip, please leave a comment and I’ll try to answer them. 

10 years…yet seems like only yesterday

February 14, 2008 1 comment

Ten years ago today was the last time I saw my mom alive. It was a Friday night and my family and I spent the night with her in the hospital. She sent us home to bed late that evening, and I thought I would see her the next afternoon. Unfortunately, she lost her battle with cancer in the early morning, and by 7 that morning we were back in her room mourning her.
I run the gamut of emotions these two days. The pain has healed, but yet seems fresh on the anniversary. I wish that she could have met Nicole. I know that they would have gotten along.
I always wonder if mom knew how much I looked up to her. I wonder if she knew how much I’d miss her.
If it wasn’t for God, I don’t know where I’d be right now. When mom passed, I leaned on Him the most, and He got me through. Sure, I ached and cried – God never said it would be painless, but I never got overwhelmed. God was there carrying me through, and I am thankful to Him for that, and everything else He does for me.
He also fills me with hope – the hope of seeing mom again at the resurrection and the hope that she and Nicole get to meet . If we are blessed with kids, the hope of them meeting grandma.
The biggest hope? Standing there holding the hand that holds the world – the same hand that held me when I needed it.

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Don’t trust Matt when he says a new store is open….

October 27, 2007 Leave a comment

I’ve never been to Ikea. We went to Ikea because Matt was certain it was open. It wasn’t. Click here to see what I’m talking about.

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Happy Birthday Mom!

October 1, 2007 Leave a comment

Today would have been Mom’s 60th birthday. I sometimes get lost in the what ifs and try to imagine what life would be like if she were still with us. My brother and sister will talk about it from time to time, but we don’t dwell on it. We choose to honor Mom by living life, taking care of each other, and pass on what she taught us. While she may not be physically here, her spirit lives on in us, and that makes me happy.
Ama, te amo, y te extrano. Nunca la olvidare. Feliz cumpleanos.

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